In our current pandemic-conscious world, it’s on our minds to create intentional spaces in our homes for work, play, exercise, meditation/prayer, sleep, and more. But have you ever thought about how to create a space in your home for your child to meaningfully cultivate their relationship with your co-parent/co-caretaker? This week’s “Co-Parenting Convo” will help you to do just that!

Many co-parents/co-caretakers can often overlook the importance of their child having a safe and comfortable environment for communicating with the non-custodial parent/caretaker (for our purposes, non-custodial simply means, the party not caring for the child at any given time). Actions that can inhibit your child’s communication time can range from the most obvious of ensuring that the child isn’t feeling “coached” into saying or responding on a parent’s behalf in a certain way, to the not-so-obvious ensuring the child feels comfortable requesting and having the ability to speak with the non-custodial parent/caretaker when they please.

If you’ve never considered this topic, we have two tips help to get you started.

Now, there are situations where either a court order or safety concerns may play into why these tips aren’t appropriate. If that’s the case, you should consult with us immediately to decide how to protect your child; however, for most, it’s just that they hadn’t considered this to be a “thing.” If you’re in Virginia, however, it is important to note that your ability to cultivate and encourage the relationship between your child and their parent/caretaker is a Best Interest of the Child Factor in the Code of Virginia (you can read more , here ). If you ever face a contested custody and/or visitation matter in a Virginia court, the judge will have to consider, among other factors, your ability to encourage your child and your co-parent/co-caretaker’s relationship. So, why not start with ensuring there is a quiet and comfortable space for them to communicate.

As we say, if you’d want it for yourself, you should make sure you’re doing it for the other parent/caretaker, too!

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